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Wow you’ve literally described my life right now, Temi. July and August are really slow months and I begin to fear that I will never work again. I begin to hold onto every single euro and I lock myself in a fear based mentality which of course won’t bring more abundance my way.

I’m also trying to find my way into jobs in writing and going through the whole LinkedIn, website/portfolio creation can be really hard on my imposter syndrome. But I have to keep going and trust that I will find meaningful projects to be a part of.

I really liked what you said about remembering when God has always taken care of you and given you what you’ve needed. This is something I do too, whenever I’m feeling like my life as I know it is about to end, I remember that something new has always been sent my way and that I’ve always been protected.

Thank you for this essay Temi 🙏🏼

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Emily! First of all I LOVE what you're doing with POMELO. It's so raw and honest. Thank you for what you write. I'm playing catch up now with your previous newsletter posts.

I'm so glad this resonated with you. This makes me happy cause we're not alone. I hope more jobs come your way and that you get inspired during the slow months to just BE (if financially possible!).

A friend once told me "GOD GOT YOU." and it's been my anthem ever since. Things might not go the way I planned but God knows what's next.

If I end up having to get a designer job, to God be the glory. If I end up still freelancing this time next year, to God be the glory. He knows whats best.

Hope this encourages you!

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Thank you Temi for taking the time to read POMELO and for your kind words. It really means a lot.

I’m definitely trying to just BE and do random things I enjoy. I guess it’s all a case of perspective too: I may be worried about finances right now, but I’m in a very blessed position to be able to just BE throughout the summer months. That mindset is more expansive than the other. So thank you for that reminder.

I wish you and your family a lovely July! Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re bringing goodness into the world through your writing!

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Perspective is everything! And glad you’re able to just BE! I struggle with that but I’m learning along the way.

Wishing you a restful and joyous July!

And you keep up the amazing writing as well! It’s blessing us all 🙏🏿

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Jul 3, 2023Liked by Temi Coker

This blessed me. Thank you for these words.

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You’re so welcome! Glad it resonated with you ✊🏿

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You’re soo welcome. Glad it resonated with you

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Thanks for sharing. I really resonate with this. I've been self-employed for 6 years and I'm going through a career transition (integrating more new business projects) that has contributed to business being slower than usual, on top of the summer and holiday months being slow in general.

I have also been leaning into god lately, and reminding myself to be grateful for all that I have. That you never know what miracle awaits around the corner. I've had plenty awaiting me in the past and there will be more if I keep my head up and hands open.

No matter how successful I become, there will always be highs and lows in life. No amount of money or success can shield me from life's challenges, so it's best to learn how to ride the wave with grace.

Being an Entrepreneur is not easy or always glamorous but it's what works for me, and there is no viable alternative that would be sustainable in the long-run other than earning a living from my gifts. It is worth it.

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As a creative person who has projects currently on the run, this was needed. Everyone needs to be reminded that not everything will come to you in a blink of an eye, because if they do, how can we appreciate it?

You're so blessed to be surrounded by people who give great life advice, I'll 100% guess they're blessed to have you as well.

Anyway, loved this essay, Temi!! 💗

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This was exactly what I needed to hear. I felt an overwhelming wave of emotions yesterday, July 3, 2023. Reading this newsletter today was medicine for the soul and a reminder that everything good and bad always comes to an end.

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Man this warms my heart thank you so much for sharing and I’m so glad this was a good reminder for you!

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